You'll have to Pardon Me.
The Hills: Heidi, Wayne, Hien, Wade, Heather, Wes FAMILIES ARE FOREVER! (Be sure to add your own thoughts about Wade at the bottom of the page.)
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The Boneman
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Fri Aug 25th, 2006
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My Uncle Wade is a man very much beloved in my family. When his father, my Grandpa, died a couple years back it left Wade as the patriarch of the family and never has anyone been better suited to be the hub and focal point of a family. A successful and well-to-do Oral Surgeon, he had a gigantic home that was a place where you were always welcome, a place where you rarely escaped without a belly full of my Aunt Hien's awesome stir fry and the place that became a Grand Central Station of sorts, not only for our family, but other families and literally hundreds of friends who were made to feel like family. My Uncle Wade is my mother's little brother and I've known him all my life and he holds a fond place in many of my oldest and dearest memories.
Just two weeks ago he was having a little stomach trouble, I guess it was something that had been going on for a few days so just to be on the safe side he went to have his doctor take a look at it, and after a couple tests his doctor was left with the unenviable task of informing my Uncle that his stomach ache was in fact pancreatic cancer. Most of the family (it's a sizable group of folks) are now hanging out in Salt Lake at the Huntsman Cancer Institute - which is incidentally the only hospital I've ever been in that I didn't want to leave on a dead run - we're here to say good bye to our Uncle, brother, husband, father, grandfather and friend - we didn't get much time.
Wade honored his parents and family by serving an LDS mission and then two tours of duty in Vietnam as a chopper pilot. He would meet my aunt Hien there and return with her as his fiance. With all this under his belt he set about the schooling necessary to become an Oral Surgeon. Because of his service to God and country he got a later start on his career than most and so he came into the wealth that such professionals achieve later in his life and it's been said a hundred times by all of us as we comfort each other at his bedside, that it's so unfair that he really didn't get the opportunity to enjoy his wealth. Sure there is some truth to all of that, but I know that Wade loved his work, and the truth is that work is what we're put here to do. Wade worked hard and because of that he has left an impressive legacy that he'll be able to gaze down upon proudly. Knowing that he provided for for his family - all of his family, in a most honorable and lasting way.
Laying there unconscious from the king-size doses of pain meds necessary to keep him comfortable, he looks like a man no older than forty, like he might spring to his feet to shake hands with Ashton Kutcher coming out of the closet. No such luck. Regardless how maudlin and really out of place, I'd invite my cousins, nieces, nephews, uncles, aunts and and friends who might feel inspired to pay their respects here. Once you write your thoughts and hit "submit" it will post immediately. Here, in some small way, might become something of a hub for my family - because unfortunatley in a day or so, the Boneman will be the Patriarch of this really amazing and cool family. Wade will be missed in ways that we haven't even begun to comprehend just yet. Two weeks ago he was a rich man in the prime of his life planning on a 12 week trip around the world. The world won't be the same without him around.
The family asks that in lieu of flowers, donations be made to the Dr. Wade Hill Scholarship Fund for Dixie State College Dental Hygiene Program, 225 South 700 East, St. George, Utah 84770.
Viewing: Friday, September 1, 2006; 6-8pm at Heideman Mortuary, 170 S. Mall Dr., St. George, UT 84790. AND Saturday, September 2, 2006; 9:30-10:45am at Sunset Stake Center, 82 N. Dixie Dr., St. George, UT 84770.
Funeral Service: Saturday, September 2, 2006; 11am at Sunset Stake Center, 82 N. Dixie Dr., St. George, UT 84770.
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